Monday, March 31, 2014

Black Children Face The Most Barriers To Success In America, Asians The Least

From birth, the average black child in America is at a relative disadvantage, according to an Annie E. Casey Foundation study released Tuesday.



While more than 92 percent of white, Latino, American-Indian and Asian and Pacific Islander babies are born at normal birth weight, that number for African-Americans only reaches into the high-80s. The pattern of disadvantage for black children continues into elementary school and through high school in the form of standardized testing scores and high school graduation rates. Only 66 percent of African-Americans graduate from high school on time, while more than 90 percent of Asian-Americans and Pacific Islanders do.



As America becomes increasingly diverse, the Casey Foundation report looked at how five racial groups fare against a dozen milestones in stages of life from birth to adulthood, including the number of eighth-graders with math proficiency and the number of young adults who are in school or working. The report, titled the Race for Results, finds that while no group perfectly meets every milestone, Asian-Americans fare the best and African-Americans do the worst.



“We found that the gaps sort of start out relatively small and get bigger over time,” Laura Speer, Casey Foundation associate director of policy reform and advocacy, told The Huffington Post over the phone. “Look at the early childhood measures: The gaps between African-Americans, Latinos, whites are relatively small. But in the early childhood years, even a small gap can have a big impact in the long run.”



The report measures each group's success toward the milestones on a 1,000 point-scale. Asian-Americans and whites scored best, with 776 and 704 respectively. American-Indians and African-Americans, on the other hand, scored in the 300s. Gaps between groups’ achievements start small in early childhood milestones, like percentages of babies born at normal birth weight, and children enrolled in pre-K, but the differences widen in neighborhood milestones, like percentages of children living in low-poverty areas.



The report uses data from the latest census that shows differences between states. American Indians in Texas and California, for example, appear to be faring significantly better than American Indians in Montana and North Dakota, according to the report. African-Americans face the greatest barriers in Michigan, Wisconsin and Mississippi, the report says.



The report comes after a recent government study found that students of color are routinely discriminated against in school, with harsher discipline and less access to the best teachers than their white peers.



The Casey Foundation suggests further study to pinpoint what's causing the racial disparities and programs to eliminate them.



"Too often, the resources of public systems serving children and families are spent on programs that lack evidence and without input from the families and communities they are intended to serve,” the report says.



Speer said several Obama administration initiatives will help, including the My Brother’s Keeper, designed to increase opportunity for boys and men of color.



“The kids of color in our country are absolutely critical to the future success of the United States,” Speer said. “They are going to be the majority of our work force and we can’t afford to lose the talent they have and could have in the future behind. We need them to be successful.”





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OKCupid Publicly Rips Mozilla: 'We Wish Them Nothing But Failure'

OKCupid may be in the business of love, but the online dating site has anything but tender feelings for Mozilla and its newly-appointed CEO.



In a letter published Monday on OKCupid.com but viewable only to those who try to enter the site using a Mozilla Firefox Internet browser, the company called out CEO Brendan Eich's past support of Proposition 8, a 2008 ballot initiative that aimed to ban same-sex marriage in California.



"Those who seek to deny love and instead enforce misery, shame, and frustration are our enemies," the letter reads in part. "[W]e wish them nothing but failure."



You can see a screengrab of OKCupid's message if you click here, but we've also reproduced it in its entire below:



"Hello there, Mozilla Firefox user. Pardon this interruption of your OkCupid experience.



Mozilla’s new CEO, Brendan Eich, is an opponent of equal rights for gay couples. We would therefore prefer that our users not use Mozilla software to access OkCupid.



Politics is normally not the business of a website, and we all know there’s a lot more wrong with the world than misguided CEOs. So you might wonder why we’re asserting ourselves today. This is why: we’ve devoted the last ten years to bringing people—all people—together. If individuals like Mr. Eich had their way, then roughly 8% of the relationships we’ve worked so hard to bring about would be illegal. Equality for gay relationships is personally important to many of us here at OkCupid. But it’s professionally important to the entire company. OkCupid is for creating love. Those who seek to deny love and instead enforce misery, shame, and frustration are our enemies, and we wish them nothing but failure."





OKCupid does provide Firefox users with a link through to the actual site at the bottom of the page, but nevertheless urges people to use alternate browsers:



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In an statement emailed to The Huffington Post late Monday, Mozilla asserted that it is no way an anti-gay institution.



"Mozilla supports equality for all, including marriage equality for LGBT couples. No matter who you are or who you love, everyone deserves the same rights and to be treated equally," a Mozilla spokesperson wrote. "OkCupid never reached out to us to let us know of their intentions, nor to confirm facts."



Eich's appointment as Mozilla's new CEO last week led to an outcry among lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) rights advocates. At the heart of the criticism against Eich is a $1,000 donation the Mozilla co-founder and JavaScript inventor made in support of Proposition 8 six years ago.



In its letter to Firefox users, OKCupid wrote that while Eich's contribution is six years in the past, "Mr. Eich’s boilerplate statements in the time since make it seem like he has the same views now as he did then."



Eich himself last week addressed concerns about his "commitment to fostering equality and welcome for LGBT individuals at Mozilla" on his personal blog.



In it, he said:



"I am committed to ensuring that Mozilla is, and will remain, a place that includes and supports everyone, regardless of sexual orientation, gender identity, age, race, ethnicity, economic status, or religion."





Harry Bradford contributed to this report.



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New Poll Shows Potential Reelection Trouble For Rahm Emanuel In Chicago Mayor's Race

Chicago Mayor Rahm Emanuel could have his hands full in his reelection campaign if a certain challenger decides to run against him, a new poll released Friday shows.



In a poll commissioned by the Illinois Observer and conducted by Strive Strategies, 40 percent of respondents said they would vote for Cook County Board President Toni Preckwinkle over Emanuel if Preckwinkle opted to run in the 2015 election.



Twenty-eight percent of respondents to the poll of 724 likely voters, which was conducted using robocalls and has a margin of error of 3.49 percent, said they were undecided in the hypothetical showdown of the Democratic lawmakers.



Preckwinkle had the most support among African-American respondents to the poll -- 42 percent of whom said they'd vote for her over the incumbent mayor. Fifty-three percent of respondents said they believe the city is heading in the wrong direction.



While Preckwinkle has repeatedly emphasized she is running for reelection this fall and said she plans to serve out that four-year term, she has declined to specifically rule out challenging Emanuel next year.



Meanwhile, Emanuel has already raised over $6.2 million in campaign funds though only two longshot candidates have thus far gone on record to announce a mayoral challenge.



The Chicago mayoral election will be held on Feb. 24, 2015.



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Latino Obamacare Workers Arrested, Claim They Were Racially Profiled

Two young men going door-to-door to spread the word about the Affordable Care Act's Monday deadline on Chicago's West Side were arrested last week in an incident their employer described as "racist profiling."



The two men -- Felipe Hernandez, 20, and Kevin Tapia, 19 -- were arrested in the city's Garfield Park neighborhood last Tuesday after a resident called 911 to complain about what they reportedly suspected was a scam targeting the elderly, according to the Chicago Sun-Times.



The two men were detained for several hours and charged with soliciting unlawful business, a misdemeanor, because police say officers were not aware at the time that the two were working with the Grassroots Collaborative community group. A police spokesman told the Chicago Tribune on Sunday they expect a judge will dismiss the men's case.



“I never would have thought informing people about Obamacare would get me in handcuffs," Hernandez said at a Sunday news conference, according to the Sun-Times.



In reaction to the arrests, Grassroots Collaborative executive director Amisha Patel called on Mayor Rahm Emanuel and Police Superintendent Garry McCarthy to apologize and "institute anti-racist training for all Chicago Police officers" in a statement.



"We will continue to outreach to Chicago residents and we will continue to stand against policies and police tactics that attempt to criminalize youth, criminalize people of color, and criminalize community organizing," she added.



According to the statement, Grassroots Collaborative had received funding to conduct outreach for the Affordable Care Act to low-income Chicagoans.



Patel's group also launched an online petition calling for the charges to be dropped and that the racial profiling incident be investigated.



A CPD spokesman denied to the Tribune that the men were targeted because of their race.



The two are expected to appear in court on May 16.



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Billy Corgan In Talks With AMC For Reality Show Based On His Indie Pro Wrestling Company

Billy Corgan is reportedly developing a new TV show that will focus more on smashing skulls than Smashing Pumpkins.



The Pumpkins frontman is in talks with AMC to develop a pro wrestling-focused reality show, according to Variety.



"The Untitled Billy Corgan Wrestling Project" promises to "[pull] back the curtain on the pro-wrestling world as [Corgan] takes over creative direction for the independent wrestling company Resistance Pro," Variety reports.



A long-time pro wrestling aficionado, Corgan founded Resistance Pro with wrestling promotor brothers Jacques and Gabriel Baron back in 2011.



Resistance Pro holds wrestling events once a month in small venues around Chicago attracting between 300 and 600 people per event and netting as much as $20,000 a night, Crain's Chicago Business previously reported.



Since founding Resistance Pro, Corgan has done more than just attach his name to the project: The Chicagoland native ditched his disaffected Pumpkins persona and got downright silly while starring in a local furniture company ad to promote Resistance Pro last year.







"We believe that wrestling is fascinating on many many levels. Socially, politically, even economically," Corgan told ProWrestling.net in 2012. "The struggles independent wrestlers go through to try to find work. Those are real struggles that anybody can identify with. We want to show what goes on in a wrestling company behind the scenes."



Beyond his wrestling project, Corgan has been busy creating epic jam sessions inspired by ancient literature at his suburban Chicago tea shop, Madame Zuzu's.



In early March Corgan played an eight-hour musical interpretation of Herman Hesse's "Siddhartha" and followed up that performance Sunday with a three-hour stretch of "sonic impressions" based on poems by the Sufi mystic, Rumi.



Adding to Corgan's ambitious list of activities are not one but two Smashing Pumpkins albums promised for 2015. According to a recent post on the band's official site, the Smashing Pumpkins will release a pair successive albums, "Monuments To An Elegy" and "Day For Night."



On the band's site Corgan wrote, "For those interested in sound, think: ‘guitars, guitars, guitars, and more guitar.'"



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Facebook Data Creates Incredible MLB Fan Map That Proves That Yankees Fans Are Everywhere

Baseball is back but it seems that not everyone is ready to root, root, root for the home team. Many baseball fans are apparently choosing to support the New York Yankees regardless of their proximity to the Bronx.



To create a map of Major League Baseball fandom, the Facebook data team went to each MLB club's official page and checked the "likes" to see where supporters lived across the country. Each U.S. county was then given a color to correspond with the team that had the most fans among people who reside in that county. According to the resulting map, the Yankees are America's team. At the very least, the Bronx Bombers seem to be the team of choice among those who register their fandom on Facebook.



While the Yankees seem to have the widest reach across the country, the Boston Red Sox, Atlanta Braves, Seattle Mariners, Colorado Rockies, Minnesota Twins and Texas Rangers are all backed by large geographic areas of concentrated fan support. At other end of the "like" spectrum, the New York Mets and Oakland Athletics couldn't even register a single county in their designated team color. Both are overshadowed by more popular neighbors. The Toronto Blue Jays joined the A's and Mets as teams without a plurality of support in any U.S. county but they're presumably not too worried about these U.S. results.



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First-Ever MLB Replay Challenge Made, Umpires Confirm Call (VIDEO)

PITTSBURGH (AP) — Major League Baseball has used expanded replay for the first time, and the umpire's call was confirmed in a game between the Chicago Cubs and Pittsburgh Pirates.



Cubs manager Rick Renteria asked umpires to take another look after Jeff Samardzija was called out at first base in the fifth inning Monday at PNC Park. The call on the field was confirmed after a 2-minute wait.



Samardzija bunted, and the Pirates turned it into a double play.



Most calls can be challenged this season under MLB's new replay format. The system was tested in spring training.



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Dennis Rodman Wears Drag For Legends Of Basketball Tour

Dennis Rodman had all eyes on him in Argentina when he hit the basketball court, dressed in drag.



Rodman wore heavy eye makeup, bright lipstick and a platinum mohawk to play in the Legends of Basketball 2014 Tour in Buenos Aires, Sunday, March 30.



A YouTube video from the game shows the crowd cheering and taking photos. Sporting News notes the audience wasn't too shocked at the former Bulls player's appearance.



"The Argentinian fans weren't surprised one bit," blogger DeAntae Prince writes. "In fact, they appeared delighted to have Rodman live up to his reputation for pulling off the unexpected and unthinkable."



Drag is nothing new for the 52-year-old NBA star, who discussed his multifaceted persona in his 1996 autobiography, Bad As I Wanna Be.



"To hang out in a gay bar or put on a sequined halter top makes me feel like a total person and not just a one-dimensional man," he wrote. "I'm always looking for new ways to test myself, whether on the court or off. There are no rules, no boundaries -- I'm trying to get deep into who I am. ... Nobody's going to tell me it's not manly to drive a pink truck or wear pink nails. I'll be the judge of my own manliness."










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'Two Souls' Photo Series Beautifully Captures The End Of A Relationship (NSFW)

The end of a relationship is always a confusing and emotionally fraught time -- and we've found a set of images that perfectly capture those heartbreaking moments.



On assignment for Upon Paper magazine, 21-year-old student and photographer Jordan Tiberio spent two days last year intimately photographing a couple she knew in what turned out to be the final weeks of their relationship. The resulting images are both stunning and haunting.



(Some images below are NSFW)



The couple, who Tiberio was already friends with, dated for one year and lived together for much of that time. According to the photographer, she shot the couple nude in order to capture them the way they might act alone together.



"Making the model feel I'm unfazed by their nudity is important to me, so that they can be at ease," Tiberio told The Huffington Post in an email. "Though I do not wish to objectify my models in any way, I treat the nude body as a prop; an ever-changing, transformative object, limitless in its potential beauty."



Tiberio was nervous about showing the subjects the final images, given their breakup, but instead found them grateful for the series.



"These pictures are special," the woman in the photographs told Nerve. "They are real, tangible representation of something that changed my life and changed me for the better."



See some of Tiberio's beautiful images below, and check out the rest on her website.



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Here Are Some First Steps for Northwestern's Union

The national media has focused on "pay-for-play" for college athletes after the recent National Labor Relations Board (NLRB) ruling allowing Northwestern University football players to unionize.



The concept of universities cutting paychecks to college athletes is a complex one, one that could have numerous ramifications, including unknown effects for female athletes under Title IX and male athletes in so-called minor sports.



However, if the ruling survives all the legal challenges to come, there are several relatively straightforward items that a Northwestern players' union -- or a potential athletes' union at any university -- could bring to the bargaining table quickly.



Here are a few actions that college athletes should push for immediately when dealing with the NCAA in general and individual university athletic departments in particular:



1) Cover All Sports-Related Medical Expenses for Athletes and Disallow the Pulling of Scholarships From Athletes Who Suffer Injuries While Engaged in Sports Activities For Their School



Currently, there are athletes losing their athletic scholarships (or having them reduced) due to injuries occurred during athletic competition for their university. That's simply wrong.



As the National College Players Association (NCPA), headed by former UCLA linebacker Ramogi Huma, says, "It is immoral to allow a university to reduce or refuse to renew a college athlete's scholarship after sustaining an injury while playing for the university."



Even worse is the fact that some schools aren't paying for all -- or part - of athletes' medical expenses that are clearly tied to sports-related injuries. Those occurrences need to stop.



2) Require Athletic Scholarships to Cover the Full-Cost of College Attendance and Be For Five Years



"Full" athletic scholarships should be just that and cover the full-cost of college attendance for students.



According to an NCPA and Drexel University study, the average scholarship shortfall (out-of-pocket expenses) for each "full" scholarship athlete was approximately $3,222 per player during the 2010-11 school year.



Many major college football and basketball players come from impoverished circumstances. The full cost of attendance should be covered under full athletic scholarship programs. The NCPA suggests these additional scholarship costs could be easily covered by using a relatively small percentage of post-season revenues. That sounds reasonable.



In addition, athletic scholarships should be for five years. This would prevent coaches and athletic directors from "firing" athletes due to injuries or athletic performance reasons - even when they are excelling in the classroom.



3) Develop Policies That Severely Limit Weekday Games



Academic performance is hindered, and graduation rates are damaged, by the growing number of NCAA Division I games that take place on weekdays.



In order to honor the NCAA's stated mission "to integrate intercollegiate athletics so that the educational experience of the student athlete is paramount" the number of weekday games needs to be curtailed significantly.



Scheduling Tuesday and Wednesday night football games is not in the best interests of students' educational work.



4) Adopt the Olympic Model of Allowing Athletes to Benefit Economically From Their Fame



Economically, college football and basketball players continue to be exploited.



According to a study by the National College Players Association and the Drexel University Sport Management Department, football and men's basketball players at top sports schools are being denied at least $6.2 billion between 2011 and 2015 under National Collegiate Athletic Association rules that prohibit them from being paid.



Admittedly, paying athletes salaries as university employees is a complex challenge that could take years to sort out. However, allowing college athletes to receive money from outside the athletic department is much more straightforward and can happen quickly.



It's fair and just. And it gets rid of a lot of the hypocrisy in college sports.



It's time to let athletes benefit from their fame and likeness like every other student at our colleges and universities. Let them take endorsement money like the coaches that lead them. If the local auto parts store wants to pay a college athlete to sign autographs for two hours during a store sale, why shouldn't the athlete be allowed to take that opportunity? If someone wants to give an athlete a gift -- be it cash or tattoos -- why should that be banned? College students on music scholarships are free to accept cash or gifts for playing a weekend gig at the local club. What makes athletes different?



As an example, it's time to eliminate the NCAA's outdated concept of amateurism and allow college athletes to get paid for having their likeness on calendars.



The fact is, nobody else in our country has to deal with the economic restrictions that NCAA athletes currently face.



The Olympics dumped the amateur myth and allowed athletes to make money from their athletic ability and fame. And guess what? The world didn't end! In fact, the Olympics are more popular than ever.



"The plight of college athletes is definitely a civil rights issue," says civil rights historian and author Taylor Branch. "College athletes are citizens and are being denied their rights by what amounts to collusion. Colleges are telling football and basketball players they can't get anything above a college scholarship. The athletes are being conned out of their rights. We need modern abolitionists to fight this unjust and unstable system."



The Northwestern football players have stepped up. Now, we need others from all walks of life to join the fight.



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Opt Your Child Out of State Testing: Don't Feed the Machine

This week begins the make-or-break, do-or-die standardized testing that will label your child a success or a failure. I urge you not to let your child take the state test.



Opt out.



The best test for students is the test made by their teacher. Teachers know what they taught; they test what the students were taught. They get instant feedback. They can find out immediately which students didn't understand the lesson and need extra help. They can get instant feedback about their own success or lack of success if the students didn't learn what they taught.



The standardized tests are useless for instant feedback. They have no diagnostic value. The test asks questions that may cover concepts that were never introduced in class. The test is multiple-choice, creating an unrealistic expectation that all questions have only one right answer. The tests may have errors, e.g., two right answers or no right answers or a confusing question. The test results are returned months after the test, meaning that the student now has a different teacher. The test scores give no breakdown of what the student did or did not understand, just a score.



These days, the purpose of the tests is to evaluate the teacher; most researchers agree that using student scores to evaluate teachers gives inaccurate and unable results. This year's "effective" teacher may be next year's "ineffective" teacher. "Value-added-measurement" has not proven to work anywhere. Most teachers don't teach tested subjects and they are assigned rating based on the results of the school as a whole. A music teacher may be found "ineffective" based on the school's math scores. This is madness.



Because the tests have no diagnostic value for students, they are worthless. If they can't be used to help students or to improve instruction, they shouldn't be used at all. We can learn all we need to know about states or cities by sampling (like NAEP, which compares states to states, and cities to cities). We can learn all we need to know about individual students by relying on teacher judgment and testing in specific grades, like 4 and 8.



The reason we have so much testing is because our policymakers don't trust teachers. If we trusted teachers, we would let them teach and trust them to do what is right for their students. The more we distrust teachers, the less appealing is teaching as a job or a profession.



Another reason we test so much is the power of the testing corporations, which pay lobbyists in Washington and the states to push for more testing. This is big business.



Elite private schools rarely use standardized tests. They trust their teachers to evaluate their students' progress.



We are trapped in a machine that is profitable for the few, but demoralizing to teachers and students.



Testing is not teaching. It steals time from instruction. Making it so important leads schools to narrow the curriculum, cutting funding for the arts, eliminating social workers and counselors, cutting recess and physical education. Making testing so important leads to states and districts gaming the system, to schools shedding low-scoring students, to cheating, to teaching to the test, and to other anti-educational actions.



How to stop the machine?



Opt out.



Don't let your children take the test.



Deny the machine the data on which it feeds. There are corporations ready to mine your child's data. Don't let them have it.



I am reminded of the famous speech by Mario Savio, leader of the Free Speech Movement, during a protest rally at the University of California at Berkeley in 1964. He said:



There's a time when the operation of the machine becomes so odious, makes you so sick at heart, that you can't take part! You can't even passively take part! And you've got to put your bodies upon the gears and upon the wheels...upon the levers, upon all the apparatus, and you've got to make it stop! And you've got to indicate to the people who run it, to the people who own it, that unless you're free, the machine will be prevented from working at all!





Assert your independence. Protect your child. Stop the machine.



Opt out.



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Which Are Illinois' Healthiest Counties?

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County Health Rankings and Roadmaps ranked every Illinois county from healthiest to least healthy. Do you live in one of the counties that fell in either the top 10 or the bottom 10? Two counties in the Chicagoland area appear in the top 10.



CHECK OUT THE TEN HEALTHIEST COUNTIES HERE



Meanwhile, a majority of the least healthy counties in Illinois are clustered downstate.



CHECK OUT THOSE COUNTIES HERE



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10 Motherhood Truths From Around the World

Mothers.



What do women around the world think of raising children?



What do mothers all over the world do all day?



What do they dream about for their children? Does it matter where they live? Does it matter how much money they have? Does it matter if they live in a small apartment or a big house?



Are mothers in other countries happier, or not?



Over the last two years, I've had the opportunity to get to know mothers all over the world. Each of them has been on their own journey of being a peaceful, playful and present mother. They've been busy transforming their families along the way reporting more happiness, more meaningful moments and more connection.



These truths were created with the help of moms who live in Australia, New Zealand, Japan, Canada, Malaysia, Germany, Scotland, England, Trinidad, Norway, Iceland and nearly every single state of the United States.



These truths are a glimpse into the reality of modern mothers today who are faced with a constant push-pull to be more than they can be in a single day -- but they try. Oh, they try.



Now onto those truths ...



Truth No. 1: We are all perfectionists.

The truth is that we all want the perfect life, the perfect house, the perfect DIY project to fill our days. We all want perfectly behaved children and perfectly written homework and perfect dinners. We all want more time for ourselves and more time with our family. We all want more money. We all want more joyful days. We all want a clean house and decent clothes and a child who doesn't say "I hate you."



Truth No. 2: We all seek -- but rarely attain -- a balanced life.

The truth is we are never going to have enough time for ourselves. The truth is there is no right way or wrong way to find and achieve balance while raising children. In fact, there is only a constant effort, re-assessment and adjusting to find the right way to keep the balls of raising children, working, living, dreaming and housekeeping in the air without dropping a single thing. Balance is a journey, not a destination.



Truth No. 3: Mothers (and fathers) yell for a reason.

The truth is sometimes we yell. The truth is that we don't want to yell. The truth is we know yelling isn't helpful. The truth is we want to stop yelling. We'll do just about anything to stop yelling but so many of our attempts fail. To stop yelling feels impossible, just like breaking any bad habit is difficult. But once we do stop we realize how good it feels, how empowering, how life-changing it is.



Truth No. 4: We all need more time for ourselves.

The truth is that finding time is hard. The truth is that taking time is hard. The truth is that cherishing time is hard. The truth is that if we had more time we'd still feel like we don't have enough time. Time is like water. It slips through our hands and evaporates unless we know how to conserve it.



Truth No. 5: We all just want to feel like we're enough.

The truth is that every mama has a day when she feels the weight of motherhood so heavy on her chest she can barely breathe. The truth is that every mama desperately needs to feel like she is enough, especially when she isn't sure what she's doing, which is all the time.



Truth No. 6: We are all lonely.

The truth is that every mama has -- or still -- feels very lonely and left to scramble and survive on her own, often for days or weeks -- or months -- at a time. And it's so hard sometimes that she uses the Internet to cure her of that need to connect with adults.



Truth No. 7: We all feel the pros and cons of social media.

The truth is that every mama has found connections and friendship online in ways that help her not feel so lonely. But at the same time she also finds herself drawn into the world of social media to the detriment of her family, home and children. Social media is both something we're gripping onto tightly and a tightrope that we're desperately trying to navigate carefully.



Truth No. 8: We are all clueless.

The truth is that what works for one family doesn't work for another. the truth is that tips from one parenting book work one day, but not the next. The truth is that ideas from one parenting blog sound good but when implemented, backfire. There is no right way or wrong way. Just our way and the sooner we realize that the happier we become.



Truth No. 9: We all have to learn to trust ourselves.

The truth is that we do know what we're doing. The truth is that we do know our children best. The truth is that we are doing a better job than we even know, most of the time. Learning to trust what we know to be best, what we know to be ideal for ourselves and our families is the best gift we can ever give ourselves.



Truth No. 10: We're all afraid of messing up.

The truth is that we're terrified of missing out on something. The truth is that we're scared to death that we're not being the best we can be. The truth is that we're afraid we're not perfect and that our children, the neighbors, the fellow parents at school will figure that out. The truth is that we're all chasing the perfect-mother myth.



Shawn Fink is the founder of The Abundant Mama Project, a community for moms seeking peace.



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No More Oil Found In Lake Michigan After Spill At BP Refinery

WHITING, Ind. (AP) — The Coast Guard says crews didn't find any more oil during the latest search of the Lake Michigan shore following last week's spill at BP's northwestern Indiana refinery.



Officials say a Coast Guard, BP and U.S. Environmental Protection Agency assessment team checking the area near the Whiting refinery on Sunday spotted no visible oil on the shore or in the water. Cleanup workers spent last week removing oil from about a half-mile section of shoreline. The Coast Guard says BP is being allowed to remove most of the containment boom from the lake some 20 miles southeast of downtown Chicago where a refinery malfunction discharged oil on March 24.



BP estimates between 15 and 39 barrels of oil were discharged into the lake. That's between 630 and 1,638 gallons.



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New Michael Jackson Album, 'XSCAPE,' Coming Five Years After His Death

Music fans will get to hear new Michael Jackson music in May, nearly five years after the singer's death in 2009. Titled "XSCAPE," the record will arrive on May 13 via Epic Records and in conjunction with Jackson's estate.



From the Epic Records website:



After mining by the Estate of Jackson’s archives, L.A. Reid was granted unlimited access to the treasures spanning four decades of material on which Jackson had completed his vocals. Reid then teamed up top producers to “contemporize” the songs while retaining Jackson’s essence and integrity, creating the best music you’ve never heard. The list of producers include global hitmakers Timbaland, Rodney Jerkins, Stargate and John McClain.





According to a press release, "XSCAPE" will feature eight new songs, including the album's title track.



"Michael was always on the cutting edge and was constantly reaching out to new producers, looking for new sounds," John Branca and John McClain, co-executors of the Estate of Michael Jackson, said in the release. "He was always relevant and current. These tracks, in many ways, capture that spirit. We thank L.A. Reid for his vision."



That there's new Jackson music coming is of little surprise. All the way back in 2010, Jenkins revealed that he was working on "unreleased Michael Jackson" songs. In August of 2013, Timbaland revealed he was working on a Jackson song, apparently called "Chicago." Then in March of this year, Timbaland released a snippet of another Jackson song, this one named "Slave to the Rhythm."



For more on "XSCAPE," head to the Epic Records website. Check out the album artwork, released by Epic, below.



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Sunday, March 30, 2014

Innovations Dot Century-Old Wrigley Field's History

CHICAGO (AP) — It's hard to think of Wrigley Field as anything but a place of heartbreak — a place where fans wait, season after season, for an elusive World Series title that never comes.



Yet in the century without a championship, the ballpark has been in first time and time again in changing the way America watches baseball. It was the first to let fans keep foul balls. The first with permanent concession stands. The first with organ music. The first to clean the park and broadcast games as part of an effort to diversify the fan base and attract women and their kids to a game traditionally more popular among men.



"We think of all this as so obvious, but back then this was considered revolutionary," said Cubs historian Ed Hartig.



The ballpark will mark its 100th birthday this spring, and the Cubs plan a celebration in April to honor one of the nation's most classic ballparks, where runs still register on a manual scoreboard and watching a game is like taking a step back in time. As the centennial approaches, the Cubs and Chicago have found themselves stuck in a debate about how far to go in modernizing the ballpark with the same Jumbotron that towers over other fields.



"When you put a Jumbotron in the outfield I think you are messing with what makes Wrigley Wrigley," said Phillip Bess, director of graduate studies at the University of Notre Dame's architecture school and who helped lead an effort to save Fenway Park from demolition. "If the Cubs do that it means they really don't understand what it is about Wrigley that is unique (and) the kind of place people will come to even when the team is bad."



But don't be so quick to call Wrigley Field a tired, old home of a perennial loser. It may have been the last ballpark to install lights for night games, but he park's ivy-covered walls are a defining feature of what was once a sparkling, modern ballpark run by men who were trying to create a new experience for fans.



The park was built by a man named Charles Weeghman for a team in something called the Federal League, which was trying to give the more established National and American Leagues — which the Cubs and the crosstown White Sox played in — a run for their money.



After hiring the same architect who a few years earlier designed Comiskey Park for the White Sox, workers needed just two months to demolish the buildings that once housed a seminary and build a simple, single-story grandstand and the rest of the 14,000-seat Weeghman Park just in time for the start of the 1914 season. Finished two years after Boston's Fenway Park, it cost about $250,000. Two years after the park opened, the Cubs moved in.



"It was considered a great looking park, a lot nicer than the rat-infested park the Cubs were playing in on the West Side," said Stuart Shea, author of "Wrigley Field: The Long Life and Contentious Times of the Friendly Confines."



More important is that it was built with an eye to the future: It could be retrofitted and expanded, something that was considered genius, he said.



From almost the day it was built, the owners started tinkering with the place. After nine homers were hit in the first three games — an astronomical total for the time — the Chicago Federals, the original tenants, picked up the left field fence and moved it back about as much as 50 feet in some spots. In the early '20s, the Cubs expanded the seating capacity and the size of the playing field itself by slicing the grandstand into 11 pieces and moving them to create more space. The pitcher's mound today sits where the batters' box used to be.



Wrigley also was keen to understand the Cubs were losing money because women simply refused to come, or let their children come, to a filthy and unsafe ballpark.



The park, renamed Cubs Park in 1919, began to feel different than anyplace else. Shea believes the reasons start with Weegham's obsession with cleanliness, something he learned in the restaurant business. Hartig said it was William Wrigley Jr., team owner P.K. Wrigley's father, who, after a couple years of investing in the team, bought Weeghman's shares and started making changes.



"The Cubs were really the first ones to start cleaning the ballpark after every single game and (make) sure that the players always had the cleanest uniforms," Hartig said.



Wrigley also cleaned up the way the park operated.



"You could have a ticket and someone would be sitting in your seat already because the usher was bribed," Hartig said. "So coming home from the game with a bloody nose because there was a fight over a seat was not uncommon."



To fix that, Wrigley hired a professional ushering service. The Cubs also started to view the park as a "green space," kind of like an urban oasis, said Tim Wiles, former director of research at the National Baseball Hall of Fame.



The Cubs didn't invent Ladies Day. But that didn't matter; they just did it better than anyone else, letting women in the park for free for every Friday home game. At the same time, they rejected the popular notion that if they put home games on the radio fans would listen to games instead of attending them. The games simply whet the appetite of fans.



By 1927, two years after the first regular-season broadcast, the Cubs became the first National League team to draw more than a million fans.



Now, the famed ballpark is in for another makeover. The $500 million project, which includes a Jumbotron proposal, is on hold because the team wants assurances from the neighboring rooftop owners that they won't sue over obstructed views.



The Cubs have also said repeatedly they don't want to destroy what makes Wrigley one of the most popular and recognizable sporting venues in the country.



Still, the team argues Wrigley needs to be brought into the 21st century, generate more revenue and attract younger fans who expect things like Jumbotrons. Team Chairman Tom Ricketts has said he's running a baseball team, not a museum.



While some disagree, others say no change will erase what makes Wrigley Field what it is.



"The Cubs is sort of a Chicago institution that is not entirely dependent on the exact nature of Wrigley Field," said former U.S. Supreme Court Justice John Paul Stevens, who as a child watched Babe Ruth's called shot from his seat near third base. "There's sort of a spirit that goes with the Cubs."



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Joaquim Rodriguez wins 2nd Volta a Catalunya, Westra claims final stage



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Saturday, March 29, 2014

Florida Ends Dayton's Cinderella Run To Clinch Spot In Final Four

MEMPHIS, Tenn. (AP) — The Florida Gators are first yet again this season.



Scottie Wilbekin scored 14 of his 23 points in the first half, and Florida became the first team to advance to the Final Four with a 62-52 win Saturday night over the 11th-seeded Dayton Flyers in the South Region final. The Gators reached their fifth Final Four after losing at this point in each of the past three NCAA tournaments. This time, they came in as the country's top-ranked team and the overall No. 1 seed.



Florida won its 30th straight game and improved to 36-2, topping the 35 wins by the 2007 national championship squad.



Patric Young scored 12 points, and Michael Frazier II added 10 for Florida.



Dyshawn Pierre led the Flyers (26-11) with 18 points.



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Dutch rider Tom Dumoulin wins time trial to take overall lead in Criterium International



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This Dog Who Can Balance On Anything Really Needs His Own Act

Stef Clement wins 6th Volta stage, Rodriguez leads

Dutch cyclist Stef Clement wins 6th stage of Volta a Catalunya, Rodriguez protects lead



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Friday, March 28, 2014

Union: Train Operator From O'Hare Derailment Worked 69 Hours Before Accident

CHICAGO (AP) — A union for Chicago Transit Authority drivers says the operator of the train that crashed at O'Hare International Airport worked 69 hours in the seven days before the accident.



Amalgamated Transit Union Local 308 President Robert Kelly said Friday that the operator's call-in status without a consistent work shift caused her to work "strange" hours, which was a factor in the crash. Kelly says the operator is "torn to pieces" over the crash. He says the union will fight the CTA if it seeks to fire her.



A federal investigator looking into Monday's crash in which 32 passengers were injured. The investigator says the operator acknowledged she dozed off before the accident.



Workers removed the train from the O'Hare station Thursday. CTA officials say the station will reopen this weekend.



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9 Ideas That Can Change Everything We Think About Cities

By 2050, a staggering 70 percent of the world's population will live in cities. (Right now it's 51 percent.) That will be about 6.72 billion humans putting pressure on a lot of aging infrastructure.



The race is on for cities around the globe to meet the needs of a rising population amid a changing climate and a shifting technological landscape. The cities of the future will have to balance high-tech advances with sustainable living. Here are nine ways they can do that:



1. Making Parks More Functional



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Photo Credit: Salto.





Grass, playgrounds and jogging paths are great, but future parks will have to be more. Salto, an architecture firm based in Estonia, has designed "Fast Track," a 167-foot-long trampoline path that challenges the very notion of what a park can be.



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Photo Credit: Salto.





Installed in Russia, "Fast Track is a integral part of park infrastructure, it is a road and an installation at the same time," says Salto's design team. "It challenges the concept of infrastructure that only focuses on technical and functional aspects and tends to be ignorant to its surroundings. Fast Track is an attempt to create intelligent infrastructure that is emotional and corresponds to the local context. It gives the user a different experience of moving and perceiving the environment."



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Photo Credit: Salto.





Fast Track is just one example of how cities around the world are re-imagining parks and public spaces. Manhattan's renowned High Line park was built on a series of long-abandoned elevated railroad tracks.



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Photo Credit: Getty.





By repurposing the 1.45 miles of train tracks for a public park, the neighborhood successfully created a cultural landmark. The High Line has brought about an economic boom in the area, spurring other cities to consider how they can play with their former railroad infrastructure.



2. Writing On The Walls



Street art isn't all that new, but its as a means of sparking social change and spurring urban engagement, it's only just getting started.



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Photo Credit: Flickr: MSNina.





"The street is the stage of our daily life, a place where people from different social strata coexist," South American street artist Flix told This Big City. "And street art touches all its residents. My intention is to break paradigms, to send out a concise message that somehow wakes the psyche of each individual. I just want to dissolve the constant monotony of walking through the streets."





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Photo Credit: Getty Images.







3. Repurposing Abandoned Structures



Old railroad tracks aren't the only abandoned spaces getting makeovers. With the help of design firm MRS Architecture, Texas turned an abandoned Walmart into an amazing library.





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With more and more big-box stores and malls standing empty around the country, ideas like this can capitalize on existing architecture in transformative ways.





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4. Changing The Way You Think Of Bright Lights In Big Cities



Last year, Buenos Aires partnered with Philips to convert 100,000 of its streetlights to LED technology, cutting the city's electrical costs by 50 percent, according to a Philips press release. In addition to being the more environmentally friendly option, LED bulbs have also shown themselves to be better for safety, shedding considerably more light on their surroundings than conventional bulbs.



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On the left is a street before LED installation. On the right is the same street with working LEDs.

Photo Credit: Philips.





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Before: left. After: right.

Photo Credit: Philips.







5. Growing Gardens Out Of Pavement



Transporting food hundreds or thousands of miles isn't just costly -- it has a real impact on the environment, too. Future population centers may be able to grow much of their own food locally, creating new urban jobs while reducing the environmental impact.



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Photo credit: Getty Images.





Vertical farms would contain complete ecosystems within their walls. Growing upward will require less land, an important consideration as urban populations continue to increase, says Dickson Despommier, a professor of public health in environmental health sciences at Columbia University and a champion of vertical farms.





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In cities like Tokyo and Lyon, France, urban gardens built atop railway stations already provide respite and beauty for weary travelers. The East Japan Railway Company even offers five rooftop Soradofarms in Tokyo, where commuters can sign up for their own farming plots.





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6. Supporting Co-Working And Cooperative Maker Spaces



Cubicles are so last century. Co-working spaces allow small businesses, self-employed entrepreneurs, remote workers and creatives the opportunity to enjoy the perks of an office without adhering to the structure of one. The trend reportedly began in San Francisco and has become a global movement. Co-working gives self-employed ventures a low-cost opportunity to engage and refine their ideas within a local community of seasoned, often supportive, entrepreneurs. Some speculate that cities may eventually sponsor their own public co-working spaces to encourage innovation and social entrepreneurship and avoid "brain drain" to other cities with established tech industries.





The iHub co-working space in Nairobi is one of many emerging hubs for aspiring startups in Africa. Flickr: NetHope, Inc.





The future of co-working is already happening. More than just workers with laptops sitting at communal tables, niche industry co-working habitats allow members to collaborate on projects and learn communally, as seen in San Francisco's Writer's Grotto or Detroit's Ponyride, a hub for makers and socially conscious entrepreneurs.



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Order & Other photo courtesy of Ponyride.





In the future, hubs built around 3-D printers will facilitate the sharing of blueprints, know-how and access, allowing anyone to design and produce their own product.



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A Makerbot Industries LLC Replicator Mini 3-D printer sits on display during the 2014 Consumer Electronics Show (CES) in Las Vegas on Wednesday, Jan. 8, 2014. Patrick T. Fallon/Bloomberg via Getty Images







7. Bringing Broadband Power To The People


We live in the digital age, yet 30 percent of American homes still don't have Internet access, the Pew Internet Project reports.



Free public access to the Internet could be the future. Chattanooga, Tenn. has the fastest Internet service of any city in America, via a community-owned fiber-optic network that delivers free access to every business and resident. The city is already attracting new high-tech companies, and it's been selected as the location for Volkswagen's North American headquarters and a new distribution center for Amazon Marketplace.



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Photo via Getty Images.







8. Open Cities, Smarter Cities

Forty-two percent of all the electricity used around the globe goes toward powering buildings. The next wave of development will involves making buildings smarter, greener and able to "talk" to the city around them. Smart buildings can automatically control their own temperatures, lighting and other mechanisms.





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New mobile applications that allow citizens to submit online requests for urban maintenance -- directing authorities' attention to potholes, burned-out streetlights and flooding water mains -- are already being tested through programs like SeeClickFix.com and PublicStuff.com. Future cities may be able to collect and share countless points of data to develop smarter solutions. This is already happening in Seattle -- North America's smartest city, according to FastCoExist -- which currently makes over 1,000 data sets available to the public.





9. Shipping Containers Get Second Lives



Shipping containers have proven themselves to be endlessly useful -- good thing, then, that the clever folks repurposing them are endlessly creative. Shipping containers are cheap, adaptable and readily available.





Photo Credit: Flickr, teflon.





From apartment buildings to shopping malls...





Photo Credit: Flickr, orodreth_99





The possibilities are endless.



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'Finding Vivian Maier' Turns The Lens On Enigmatic Photographer's Secret Life

Vivian Maier is proof that the art world is no exception when it comes to falling in love with a good mystery.



Both Maier's life and work are the subject of a new documentary opening in the U.S. on Friday; the very next day, Chicago's Harold Washington Library unveils a new exhibition of photographs of the city she secretly chronicled for decades.



The documentaries and exhibitions represent an ironic twist in the story of "Vivian Maier": Though the enigmatic and reclusive artist and nanny never publicly exhibited or shared her work, she posthumously captivated the art world after Chicago real estate agent John Maloof accidentally discovered a trove of her undeveloped negatives at a 2007 auction.



That real estate agent -- now Maier's de facto archivist -- recently discussed the discovery with HuffPost Live:



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The fascination with Maier has as much to do with her unknowable personal life that has been mined for odd details -- she reportedly used a fake French accent, never married and never showed her work -- as it does her unique and empathetic view on Chicago's seedier side. As a photographer, Maier was also astonishingly ahead of the curve regarding popular photographic trends like street photography and "selfies."



"She was taking selfies before they were cool," MaryBeth Kraft, a public relations representative for the Chicago Public Library told HuffPost on the eve of the exhibition opening. "Half of her rolls of film were self-portraits."



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The CPL exhibit is putting more than 50 silver gelatin prints culled from the 2012 book "Vivian Maier: Out Of The Shadows" on display, free to the public.



The exhibit from the CPL's special collections covers Maier's street photography and self-portraits from the 1950s to the 1970s.



"So many of her photos document Chicago through her street photography, and [the CPL's Special Collections] is all about preserving Chicago history," Kraft told HuffPost. According to a release from the CPL:



The exhibition presents Maier’s journeys from the pastures of rural France to the streets of Chicago. Maier’s unique ability to brilliantly capture the ideas and spirit of the period of the 1950s to the 1970s are particularly apparent in shots of Chicago’s famous Maxwell Street and protest scenes shot during the social unrest of 1968.





Kraft said a live-feed of street photography from everyday Chicagoans will be streamed as part of Maier's exhibition.



"As an artist, getting closer to her helps kind of write her story since we can't talk to her," Kraft said "We're also having people caption her photos since most were untitled since they were undeveloped."



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“Vivian’s photographs tell her life story,” "Vivian Maier: Out of the Shadows" co-author Michael Williams told the CPL. “She was way ahead of her time—recording what she saw on a daily basis with a joy and curiosity that makes her work so compelling.”



"Finding Vivian Maier" opens in L.A. and New York City March 28. The Chicago Public Library's exhibition runs March 29 to Sept. 28 in the Special Collections Exhibit Hall on the 9th floor of the Harold Washington Library Center. It will screen the BBC-produced "The Vivian Maier Mystery" on April 24 at 6 p.m. in the Cindy Pritzker Auditorium, free.



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Sally Dyck, Methodist Bishop, Arrested At Chicago Immigration Reform Rally

On Thursday, Chicago police arrested 40 people during an anti-deportation rally that saw some 500 protesters march from the Federal Plaza to the Immigration and Customs Enforcement (ICE) entrance. Ten of those arrested were Methodist pastors.



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It was no coincidence, though. The United Methodist Church has in recent months thrown support behind a growing immigration reform movement, building upon the denomination's Interagency Task Force on Immigration.



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On March 19, Bishop Sally Dyck announced her intention to stand with U.S. Rep. Luis Gutierrez, D-Ill., activist Elvira Arellano and many others in the March 27 rally to demand President Obama cease deportations until humane immigration reform is passed.



Dyck was among the 40 placed under temporary arrest at Thursday's rally and shortly thereafter released. Being arrested was something Dyck had said from the beginning she was prepared to risk.



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In a statement obtained by The Huffington Post, Dyck said, "President Obama has the power to end this moral crisis, but so far he has not demonstrated the leadership needed by our communities. I pray that he will find the courage to do so."



Dyck also sent the president the following letter:



March 27, 2014



The White House

1600 Pennsylvania Avenue NW

Washington, DC 20500



Dear President Barack Obama,



Today I joined other Chicago area faith leaders and Representative Luis Gutierrez to peacefully protest your continued policy of mass deportations of our immigrant sisters and brothers. The United Methodist Church states that, "In the face of these unjust laws and the systematic deportation of migrants instituted by the Department of Homeland Security, God’s people must stand in solidarity with the migrants in our midst." (2012 Book of Resolutions, Welcoming the Migrant to the United States) I participated in civil disobedience because I find the policy of mass deportations to be morally reprehensible and one that must end. I believe you have the authority to end deportations.



United Methodist churches across the country and in Northern Illinois, have witnessed firsthand the devastation that results from families that have been torn apart and the fear that is present in immigrant communities due to the record number of deportations during your Administration. Deportations have created undue hardship on immigrant families and many of our congregations who are faithfully responding to the many needs created by the removal of family members.



As a consequence, many of our churches are overwhelmed by the needs with whom they minister and their resources are being exhausted. One of the most well-known case of Elvira Arellano who has been forced to live apart from her family in Chicago for the past several years solely because of her legal status. There are hundreds of thousands of families such as Elvira's.



For years The United Methodist Church has faithfully advocated for just and humane immigration reform. I know only Congress can provide a permanent solution through legislation that grants citizenship to undocumented immigrants and reunites families. However, you can act now to end deportations and to provide temporary legal status for undocumented immigrants. You have done this once in a limited way through DACA and I believe you can and should do it again for all.



The belief that deportations will convince Congress to enact genuine reform is false and now it is your responsibility to end your policy of mass deportations. The fear and distrust of law enforcement officials and the heart-wrenching separation of families can finally come to a much-needed end when you put the welfare of our immigrant sisters and brothers above the political wrangling that has stifled legislative movement.



I believe that all people, regardless of their legal status, have inherent value imbued to them by God. Deportations violate the basic dignity and humanity of our immigrant sisters and brothers. Therefore, I urge you to end all deportations until a just and humane immigration reform is passed.



Sincerely,



Bishop Sally Dyck

Chicago Area

United Methodist Church









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Drink Like A Genius God This Weekend By Channeling Your Inner Kanye

Happy Friday! Welcome to Drink Like A Famous Person, where we let you bring out your fabulous side in the name of some well-earned R&R. Eschew your regular habits this weekend by drinking like...



Kanye West!









Whether you believe a book-hating "pop enigma" genius and his reality TV star fiancée deserve to be enshrined on the cover of fashion's preeminent glossy, or you wonder why everyone's got themselves in such a titter, you can still get your drink on like the "Braveheart of creativity."



The secret, perhaps unsurprisingly, is Hennessy.



Glasses? Glasses are for people who aren't Kanye West. Glasses are for the Normals. The recipe for channeling your inner Yeezus through choice of adult beverage is very simple -- purchase one bottle of Hennessy. That's it. Refuse to share. Take swigs liberally, frequently, and without regard for modesty. Modesty is "bullshit." Other people should hear the glorious inner workings of your mind, too, so be sure to spew opinions anytime, anywhere.



Because really, how could you be Kanye and want to be anyone else?







Cheers!









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Peter Sagan wins E3 Harelbeke, his first classic of season, in great style



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Slovenia's Luka Mezgec gets 3rd stage win of Volta, Joaquim Rodriguez keeps lead



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Do You Have What It Takes To Pass The U.S. Citizenship Test?

Man Sets Record For Bowling Backward, Makes Us Give Up Game Forever

Maybe you suck at bowling because you're facing the wrong way.



Andrew Cowen set a record score of 280 bowling backward, notching 10 straight strikes at one point, according to RecordSetter.com in its March 26 YouTube posting.



Cowen completed the feat at Don Carter Lanes in Rockford, Ill.



In video of his attempt (above), one of the more noticeable aspects of Cowen's delivery is the twisting of his hand as he readies the release. In response to a commenter at RecordSetter.com who wrote that the torque Cowen placed on his hand must hurt, Cowen explained, "My hand doesn't really take any more abuse bowling this way then it does when I bowl forwards."



As of early March 28, the Guinness World Record-holder listed for bowling backward is James Cripps, who rolled a 278 in 2006.



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Cancer or Not, When Did Making Fun of Each Other Become OK?

I'm sure you've seen the pictures on Facebook. If not, you will. You see, there is this awesome runner, Monika Allen, running in a tutu with a Wonder Woman shirt on and a tiara next to her friend in a tutu and a Superman shirt. It's a cool picture -- a picture celebrating the tenacity and power of women. And it was used by Self Magazine to poke fun at runners who run in tutus. Little did Self know that they picked on a cancer survivor, a runner, a fighter and a woman who, well, deserves respect like all women do.



Well, she fought back.



Self Magazine apologized.



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Truth?



They should have never even run the article. (Read the news report here.)



Never. It doesn't even matter that they're apologizing because she has cancer. The article and the picture should not have been run. They should have had the moment of discernment sitting in the editing room looking at that picture and the caption placed underneath it and wondered, does this empower women? Encourage them?



It doesn't build up.



It tears down.



I read the emails from you all. Emails about worrying about not measuring up and feeling alone and dealing with this tremendous pressure put on you as mothers. Worries about school, activities, preschool, if you're doing enough, if you are making a difference, about the pressures of pinterest, or the highlight reels of facebook, of relationships that don't make the Hallmark channel, anxieties over this or that and more.



Then this. An article that isolates a woman. An article that takes women running in tutus and belittles them. Makes them feel like they're not enough. Not worthy. Something to be made fun of. When did making fun of each other become OK? When did that become the solution in an editorial office for a corner of a magazine?



And yet, yet there is another image of a tutu that is deemed beautiful. Powerful by culture. It's of this man wearing a tutu, and just a tutu, standing in the snow doing a ballet pose. For his wife. Who had cancer. And he loved her and wanted to show his love to her. So he stood in a tutu and took pictures, beautiful pictures because of the depth of love in them, and the world cheered.



We can't pick and choose.



Making fun of women running in tutus is not okay. And it divides. Tears down.



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Or it could have.



And yet, yet it hasn't. It's made women on fire. It has made men on fire. Defending her. Defending other women. Writing Self Magazine and asking what were you thinking? Deciding that enough is enough. It made me write -- to take my own platform -- and write that this is enough.



It's enough, women, it's enough.



I've dealt with it.



I've dealt with passive women. I've dealt with women who are mean and not encouraging. They can suck the life from you if you let them. They can make you look at yourself and make you wonder what is wrong with me? They may not respect you, may go out of their way to let others know that they don't think you're anything, and they can zing at you. If you let them. That's the truth.



It's the same for you.



It's the same for Monika Allen.



She was used by a magazine and mocked. Not built up.



Listen.



We need to be a culture of women that supports each other -- tutu or not -- cancer or not.



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There's too much jealousy, competition and passivity between women. But, I tell you, what happens if all of our extras -- the homes, the convenience stores, the Targets, the schools with their SmartBoards, the Starbucks and all of that stuff -- went away? What then? Will we care that one of us is friends with that person or that our child has the coolest clothes or that our home is always perfect?



I think not.



I think then we will instead come together helping each other survive and we will not care about externals.



Why not now?



We have an opportunity.



You have an opportunity.



You and I and all the women have this opportunity right here, right now to look at the women in the room with you at work or at preschool or at church or at Target or in the parking lot waiting for kids to leave school and you have the opportunity to not judge, but rather to love. You can choose to not whisper to others about another. You can choose to not make judgements. You can choose to rise above. And you can choose, just as I have, to not allow passivity, meanness and words and actions that do not empower or build up have an bearing on self.



That's the real self. Learning to be confident in who you are so that you have no need to bash another to build yourself up.



Imagine if Self Magazine had shown love and support instead? If they had embraced the uniqueness, individuality and power that those tutus represented? If they had chosen to not make fun, but to celebrate the power of the human spirit and the individuality and uniqueness that those women demonstrated?



Today would be a different story.



Hating. Mocking. Passivity. Making fun of each other. All of that for gain that is only temporary and it really only hurts those that do it.



We are strong.



We are women who need to love, support, encourage, come alongside and believe in each other. Maybe it's just a smile or an 'I believe in you' statement or even walking into a friend's house and rolling up your sleeves and working alongside them on a hard day. Maybe it's a hug or a note or not deciding to judge. Maybe it's seeing that other women as the beautiful person worthy of respect, love and friendship. Maybe it's sitting in the editorial room and thinking that today we're going to empower each other, tutu or not.



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Let's not settle and become a generation of women who uses the other for gain.



Let's be a generation of women who empower each other.



All that angst over a tutu.



See the person.



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17 Movie Music Scenes That'll Make You Dance, Sing And Upload It To YouTube Right Now

We'd like to think the greatest cinematic moments happen when a music scene induces some serious audience toe-tapping and head-bobbing. Then head-bobbing gets you chair-bouncing. And chair-bouncing just turns into all-out dancing like a fool. All while singing along as if you've missed your true calling in life, of course.



Check out our list of the happiest music movie moments that we turn to over and over again.



1. 500 Days of Summer: "You Make My Dreams"

Tom (Joseph Gordon-Levitt) is bursting at the seams with excitement after landing his dream girl, Summer (Zooey Deschanel). After leaving her apartment, his world becomes this magical place where everyone is friendly, and it's normal to have an animated blue bird land on your shoulder.





2. Ferris Bueller's Day Off: "Twist and Shout"

In one of the most iconic scenes from the movie, Ferris (Matthew Broderick) takes over a float in downtown Chicago and makes us all want to go out and shake it up, baby, now.





3. Love Actually: "Jump (For My Love)"

In this Christmas classic, Hugh Grant, who plays the British prime minister, lets loose and dances around 10 Downing Street like no one is watching -- adding just the right amount of silliness to his character.





4. The Perks of Being a Wallflower: "Come on Eileen"

If you can't relate to this scene, you really are too cool for school. Charlie (Logan Lerman) eventually meets two students who find his quirkiness and intelligence endearing, and they give him the confidence he needs to peel himself off the wall at his school dance and join them in the middle of the dance floor.





5. Almost Famous: "Tiny Dancer"

Director Cameron Crowe reminds us that coming of age can be a beautiful thing. This tender scene starts with the on-the-road bandmates staring out the van window in a funk, and ends with Penny Lane (Kate Hudson) telling William Miller (Patrick Fugit) that he's home -- all set to Elton John on the radio.





6. Bridesmaids: "Hold On"

In a scene that reminds you that you do actually want to be on one of those save-the-date magnets someday, Wilson Phillips makes a cameo and brings Annie (Kristen Wiig), Helen (Rose Byrne) and the rest of the once-competitive bridesmaids together in the movie's final wedding scene.





7. Singin’ in the Rain: "Singin’ in the Rain"

Gene Kelly, who famously had a 103-degree fever during this classic dance number, makes us smile no matter the weather ... and it's a glorious feeling.





8. The Breakfast Club: "We Are Not Alone"

"A brain, an athlete, a basket case, a princess and a criminal" -- they have little in common, except for all being stuck in detention on a Saturday. The students end up making the most of it, and as the music progresses and the dancing begins, they put their differences aside and realize they aren't alone.





9. Big: "Chopsticks"

When Josh (Tom Hanks), a 12-year-old trapped in a grown man's body, comes across a larger-than-life piano in FAO Schwarz, he does what any kid would do -- play it with his feet, of course. This iconic scene embodies the film's theme of childlike wonder.





10. The Muppets: "Life's a Happy Song"

This opening scene is as jolly as they come. Gary (Jason Segel) and the new Muppet, Walter, wear matching outfits as they gallivant around the streets of Smalltown, USA encouraging everyone they pass to join in.





11. 13 Going on 30: "Thriller"

In an attempt to liven up the crowd, Jenna (Jennifer Garner), a 13-year-old who woke up in her 30-year-old body, gets the DJ to spin the Michael Jackson classic and makes her way onto the dance floor alone. At first, everyone thinks she's crazy as she lets her inner teen shine through, but, of course, by the end they're all doing the classic "Thriller" dance, too.





12. My Best Friend's Wedding: "I Say a Little Prayer (For You)"

In this rom-com, Julianne (Julia Roberts) sets out to stop her longtime best friend (Dermot Mulroney) from marrying the wrong woman, and brings her new BBF, George (Rupert Everett), with her. There's no shortage of great musical moments in this movie (karaoke, anyone?), but it's this sing-along that will stay in our hearts forever ... and ever and ever.





13. Sister Act: "I Will Follow Him"

In this final scene, Sister Mary Clarence (Whoopi Goldberg) leads the nuns of St. Katherine’s Parish in what starts out as a ballad but turns into a lively musical sequence. Is there anything happier than watching a bunch of nuns bust a move? We didn't think so.





14. 27 Dresses: "Bennie and the Jets"

This scene is a turning point for straight-edged Jane (Katherine Heigl), not just because she shows us her wild side while getting drunk and letting her hair down, but also because she gets Kevin (James Marsden) to admit that he shares her same enthusiasm for weddings.





15. Hairspray: "Good Morning Baltimore"

This 2007 musical is based on the 2002 Broadway adaption which is based on the 1988 John Waters' film (phew!) and opens with Tracy Turnblad (Nikki Blonsky) waking up in a delightful mood to the sound of her alarm clock. She takes us on a musical journey, all the while cheerily singing good morning to her city.





16. The First Wives Club: "You Don't Own Me"

These three divorcees close the movie by singing a declaration of freedom from male control as they realize that they don't need a man to make them happy.





17. Enchanted: "That's How You Know"

A princess and a lawyer walk through a park ... and magic happens. In this Disney live-action-animation hybrid, Giselle (Amy Adams) shares her view on love with Robert (Patrick Dempsey), and uses her considerable charm to carry this Central Park musical number alongside back-up dancers and a marching band.





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